If you have a friend who was once lose her virginity, what will you do?
If you have a friend who was once cuts and depressed, what will you do?
If you have a friend who was once tried to attempt suicide because of their parents divorce, what will you do?
If you have a friend who looks so pious but then you caught them giving their nude to their boyfriend, what will you do?
I find it hard to answer most of the question above.
I will be speechless totally speechless If I ever have that kind of friend.
Although, I am having some of them right now.
I cant say much, but keep on thinking why and why they're becoming like that.
Is it my fault? For not being there and now things are already cant turn backwards?
Is it their parents fault? For not being more responsibility?
Is it their teacher? Sibling?
I don't know what to do. I want to cry, I want to locked myself in my room. I want to stop thinking about them. But I just cant. The feeling of guilt , I feel like thats my fault too.
Have you ever felt this kind of feeling?
What will you do? What will you react? What action are you going to take?
Are you going to ignore them? Are you going to distance yourself from them? Are you going to just befriend with them, and just ignore everything? Without even try to help them change? Are you going to just shut yourself without saying anything? and let them be like who they're forever?
a little soft advice,
If you have this kind of friend, Dont ever , never, ever leave them. Stay with them, listen to them, try to understand them. A little help would mean a lot for some people. and that might be the beginning of their change.
May Allah bless us, for our effort here and hereafter.
A little rhapsody, from a forever sinner-haqxta.
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